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We Can Help You Make the Choice of Your Life
- and Your Baby's Life
An "informed choice" demands you know the truth!
ABORTION:
A Short-term Solution With Lifelong Consequences
PHYSICAL CONSEQUENCES
An abortion facility may not have, and may never tell you
about, the possible physical consequences of having an abortion, but there
are many that make abortion dangerous to your health and well-being.
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Pelvic infection is a common and serious
complication of induced abortion and has been reported in up to 30% of all
cases." 1
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Women who abort a first trimester pregnancy before a
full-term pregnancy have approximately twice the risk of contracting
breast cancer . 2
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Risk of miscarriage is almost doubled for
women with one induced abortion but no prior deliveries.
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About 10% of young women experience cervical
injury . 4 "Most uterine perforations
go unrecognized and untreated." 5
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There is a 600% increased risk of
experiencing placenta previa - a condition producing
extremely sever, life-threatening bleeding in future pregnancies.
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Women of minority races are three
times more likely to die of hemorrhage (following the legal
abortion) than white females. 7 They also have
a higher rate of hysterectomy (due to hemorrhage,
infection, or uterine perforation). 8
HAVE YOU ASKED THE ABORTION FACILITY STAFF THESE
THREE VERY IMPORTANT QUESTIONS?
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Can I see my ultrasound? (An ultrasound
is used to locate and destroy the baby.)
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Will the abortion hurt? (If awake, pain
is experienced. If under general anesthesia, there are "well recognized
risks and hazards." 9 An abortion facility may
have no emergency equipment should a problem arise under
anesthesia.)
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If it's not a baby, then what is it?
(See Facts About Fetal Development )
PSYCHOLOGICAL CONSEQUENCES
Has the abortion facility mentioned the psychological consequences of having
an abortion? These can impact your future long after you have healed
physically.
The "...worst thing in the world."
So said Kelly V., age 20, after an 8-week suction abortion at a facility on
Ball Street in Irvington, NJ. She felt that she wasn't adequately informed
about her baby. She would not have had an illegal abortion. She returned
twice because of hemorrhaging, infection, high fever, and pain (probably an
incomplete abortion).
She now has experienced guilt, regret, a hostility towards
men, feelings of dehumanization, despair, crying, depression, and an
inability to forgive herself. She has sought, and received, counseling from
Abortions Aftermath.
Sixteen-year-old Amanda, a black American from Newark,
received a positive test result from this same facility on Ball Street. She
told her parents, who demanded she abort. Amanda hadn't told her parents of
her abortion at fourteen, and the traumatic psychological effects that
caused her never to want an abortion again. She felt trapped. Upon
visiting a crisis pregnancy center, she found out she wasn't even pregnant!
The abortion facility had lied to her for $270! She returned home thankful
for the honesty of the nonprofit pregnancy center.
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70% of women ended their relationship with their husbands
or boyfriends within 30 days of having an abortion...and nearly all did so
within two years. Your decision can adversely impact even the most stable
relationships in your life. 11
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Many women suffer a flashback effect triggered by the
objects or events related to babies or the abortion for many months or
even years after the abortion. This may mean that everyday experiences
like running the vacuum, food shopping, or watching television can cause
an emotional breakdown. 12
SOCIOLOGICAL CONSEQUENCES
Rev. Jesse Jackson has stated, "Abortion is black genocide."
What happens to the mind of a person, and the moral fabric of a
nation, that accepts the aborting of the life of a baby without a pang of
conscience?" 13
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48% of black Americans believe abortion should not
be legal under any circumstances.
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Black Americans represent 9% of the US population (down
from 12% in 1973, when abortion was legalized), yet 44% of all
abortions are by black Americans. 15
Rep. Hillman Frazier explains this situation as "a lack of
information." 16
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In abortion facilities in black neighborhoods, often
the receptionist is black, but rarely is the abortionist or
the administrator. You need to ask yourself why. Black
American entertainer Lola Falana has said, "We need to say 'no' to those
who own abortion clinics in our neighborhoods." 17
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The myth that without legalized abortion, blacks would
"have Aunt Sadie take them to the back alley" is another stereotype
created by Planned Parenthood, whose founder,
Margaret Sanger , was an avowed racist. She stated, "We do not want
word to go out that we want to exterminate the Negro population
, and the minister is the man who can straighten out that idea if
it occurs to any of their more rebellious members..."
18 She also referred to minorities as "...inferior races...
human weeds... menace to civilization... defectives...
delinquents... dependents... irresponsible..." and ones who
"...bred unhindered." 19
Ask yourself: "Why a 'cash only, no checks' policy at abortion
facilities in mostly black communities?" All legitimate
physicians will accept your check.
The struggle continues...and you need to know that abortion
is, in Jesse Jackson's words, "black genocide."
"Will even our friends excuse - will God pardon us - for the
part we act in making strong the hands of the enemy of color?"
Richard Allen, former slave and founder of the A.M.E. Church
"IF ONLY WOMBS HAD WINDOWS..."
NOW THEY DO!
Shari Richard has been told routinely to turn monitors away
from the view of women considering abortions because "...it may just
influence her."
Shari has been offering free ultrasounds to women
considering abortion. Ninety percent of the women considering abortion will
not choose abortion after viewing the sonogram.
Ms. Richard further states, "The unborn babies are a part of
the abortion debate. If freedom of choice is to be anything but pro-choice
rhetoric, it must include the freedom to see who is being aborted."
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Harrison Hickman of the National Abortion Rights Action
League has stated, "Nothing has been as damaging as the advancement in
technology which shows sonogram pictures of the developing fetus."
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Carol Everett, former champion of abortion rights and former
manager of three different abortion facilities, has said, "Ultrasound opens
the womb to show the woman the truth about her baby. If every woman had
one, there would be less abortions."
She further has said, "The main purpose is to charge her the
most possible for the abortion." 25
FREE SERVICES TO HELP YOU MAKE AN INFORMED CHOICE
We want you to have the facts about all your options. Our
free services will aid you in making an informed decision.
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Free pregnancy tests with immediate results
- our tests are 99% to 100% accurate and do not
require written or oral explanation of why they "may be wrong." One
accurate test...not a second one that you can get if you pay for it!
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Free counseling - our women are trained
peer counselors who truly care about your physical and emotional
well-being. Since our services are free, we have no financial motive as
we offer you the truth.
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Educational information on all
pregnancy options - so you may weigh all the options and
make the choice that is best for you .
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Male Counseling : Men hurt a lot more
than they're given credit for. "Counseling for men, to give them a chance
to express bottled-up feelings..is very important." Post-abortive regret
affects 75% of all men involved. 26
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Free post-abortion counseling - for those
who have experienced the trauma of past abortions.
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WHEN YOU CHOOSE LIFE, WE'RE THERE TO HELP
We want you to feel secure with your decision to have
your baby, and we're here to support you throughout your
pregnancy . To help you take care of your health - and your
baby's - we have a variety of free services to help ensure just that.
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Educational information on prenatal care
and development.
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Referrals for WIC, Healthstart (temporary
Medicaid), emergency housing, legal help, and medical care.
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Free baby clothes, baby furniture, and maternity
clothes as needed - others have been through what you are about
to go through and they want to make bringing your baby into the world the
positive experience it was for them.
YOU'RE NOT ALONE
We care about you - you are a worthy person who deserves
the facts prior to a decision that may affect you for the rest of your life.
We want to get you all of the support available to you as
you bring a special life into the world.
We are non-profit ; therefore, our desire
to share the truth with you doesn't depend upon money.
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WOULD WOMEN CHOOSE ABORTION IF WOMBS HAD A
WINDOW?
Ultrasonographer Shari Richard has performed sonograms
on hundreds of women dealing with crisis pregnancies and
OVER 90% SAY NO!
YOUR YOUNG PEOPLE NEED TO SEE THE TRUTH!
ULTRASOUND: "A WINDOW TO THE WOMB" is the:
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video that deters 90% of women from abortion
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images used in national commercials, "Life: What a
Beautiful Choice."
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video seen by world leaders in Cairo that changed
their view on abortion.
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video U.S. Congress censored.
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50,000+ provided in public & private schools,
churches, and pro-life groups
SCIENTIFIC EVIDENCE OF LIFE IN THE WOMB!
1-800-364-4942
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We'll Help You Make The Informed Choice Of Your Life
Free Tests, counseling, physical items, etc.
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Gateway Pregnancy Center, Inc.
960 Springfield Avenue, Irvington, New Jersey
07111
(at the bus stop)
973-399-TEST
65 Jefferson Avenue, Suite 403,
Elizabeth, New Jersey 07201
(near N. Ave/bus # 59)
908-353-0604
Post-abortion counseling
(973) 399-8378
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Facts About Fetal Development
You may not have been given the facts about the stages
of fetal development, in spite of how important it is for you to
understand. Consider these stages of a baby's life:
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At 18 days, the baby's heart has regular beats.
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Although one can observe the family environment
shaping a child's personality from birth or soon thereafter, such
shaping actually begins at conception. 21
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At 41 days, brain activity can be recorded by an EEG
device. Fingerprints have formed.
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As early as 8 weeks, the baby feels pain
and moves away from painful stimuli. 22
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To contact our staff for help:
Footnotes:
1 American Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology
, 1984, pp 699-703.
2 British Journal of Cancer , 1981; 43:72-76.
3 New England Journal of Medicine , September
1979, pp 677-681.
4 Lancet , December 1971, pp 1245-11249 and
Johns Hopkins Medical Institutions, August 1984, pp 99-105.
5 Steven G. Kaali, MD, George Barlfai, MD, Ph.D., and
Ivan A. Szigetvari, MD, Ph.D., American Journal of Obstetrics and
Gynecology , 1989; 161:406-408.
6 American Journal of Obstetrical Gynecology ,
1981;141:769-772.
7 Dr. D. A. Grimes (CDC), Gynecology and Obstetrics
, 1983;157:461
8 Dr. D. A. Grimes (CDC), Obstetrics and Gynecology
, 1984;63:457.
9 Bernard N. Nathanson, MD, Bernadell Technical
Bulletin , 1989;1(2):2.
10 British Medical Journal , December 1980;
pp1115-1122, also, study by Planned Parenthood's Alan Guttmacher Institute,
1991.
11 Woman's Life , 1975; also quoted by Vincent
M. Rue, Ph.D., St. Thomas More Clinic, Downey, CA.
12 American Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology.
13 Rev. Jesse Jackson, speech, 1978.
14 Boston Globe poll, March 31, 1989.
15 Planned Parenthood (Alan Guttmacher Institute), and
the US Center for Health Statistics, 1987.
16 Mississippi State Rep. Hillman Terome Frazier,
Black Americans for Life Newsletter , Spring 1990, p1.
17 Lola Falana, speech, 1990.
18 Woman's Body, Woman's Right: A Social History of
Birth Control in America , Linda Gordon, NY, Grossman Publ., 1976,
p333; also, Margaret Sanger: Founder of Modern Society , by Elasah
Drogin; and Exposed: Planned Parenthood (St. Paul, MN), Peace of
Minnesota Press, 19896, pp 332-333; and The Pivot of Civilization ,
by Margaret Sanger, NY, Brentano's Press, 1922, p108.
19 Sanger, p175.
20 GROWTH . Time-Life Books, N.M. Tanner, G.R.
Taylor, et al, NY Life Science Library, 1965 p64.
21 Introduction to Psychology and Counseling ,
Paul D. Meier, M.D., Frank B. Minirth, M.D., Frank Wichwern, Ph.D., Baker
Bookhouse, Michigan, c. 1982, p.93.
22 V. Collins, MD, Diplomate and Fellow, American Board
of Anesthesiologists, British Medical Journal , January 26, 1980.
23 Phone interview, Shari Richard, R.D.M.S., Sound Wave
Images, Inc, Birmingham, Michigan, 1992, quoting from Sally Faith Dorfman,
MD, p42, International Medical News Service, OB/GYN News , 2-15-96.
24 Harrison Hickman, before the N.A.R.A.L. convention,
Octover, 1989.
25 Phone interview, Carol Everett, Dallas, Texas, 1992.
26 Arthur Shostak, PhD (Drexel University), from
Abortion and Men: Lessons, Loves, and Losses . Greenwood Press (Praeger),
Westport, CT, 1984.
text of this page copyright 1992, AARC
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